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Pet Forum / Birds / Parrots / December 2003Whats wrong with you all ?
I subscribed to this list looking for friendly advice about my Bird I most certainly did not subscribe to this list to get all the bitching In the last week I left 2 lists because of nasty comments flying about who needs all that What is wrong with you if some of you do not like what we others post and who we are then leave the list but please just let us correspond in peace shame on you grrr  SignatureNever find your self arguing with an idiot People watching may not be able to tell the difference. I Wish To Remember My Friends Birthday's Enter Here To Fill In My Accessible Birthday Book www.birthdayalarm.com/dob.jsp?Member=N&P1=5768823&P2=5811775&t=17S11M689 To start a birthday book of your own enter here http://www.birthdayalarm.com You just have to ignore it.... It is like this all over the different newsgroups :-) Kathy > I subscribed to this list looking for friendly advice about my Bird I most > certainly [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > are then leave the list but please just let us correspond in peace shame on > you grrr www.birthdayalarm.com/dob.jsp?Member=N&P1=5768823&P2=5811775&t=17S11M6 89 > To start a birthday book of your own enter here > http://www.birthdayalarm.com > I subscribed to this list looking for friendly advice about my Bird I most > certainly > did not subscribe to this list to get all the bitching It's not delivery -- it's Digornio. And it's not a list -- it's a newsgroup. > In the last week I left 2 lists because of nasty comments flying about who > needs [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > are then leave the list but please just let us correspond in peace shame on > you grrr This isn't a list. It's a newsgroup. And you are going to find people with varying opinions. Since this is an unmoderated alt.* newsgroup then people can speak as they please. LMAO @ Alex.... sorry, I had to laugh... thought of the commercial. Alex is right, sorry to say because all these NG's are all unmoderated.... unfortunately, we all have to put up with some nonsense once in a while :-) Kathy > > I subscribed to this list looking for friendly advice about my Bird I most > > certainly > > did not subscribe to this list to get all the bitching > > It's not delivery -- it's Digornio. And it's not a list -- it's a > newsgroup. | LMAO @ Alex.... sorry, I had to laugh... thought of the commercial. | [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] | | Kathy Kathy, Uh, actually there ARE some NGs that ARE moderated. Such as some of the genealogy NGs. I can tell you first hand that this IS true, because I've had posts to some of them rejected because of a missed punctuaion mark or some other such silly nonsense. . .And unfortunatly the so called "moderaters" of these groups choose to pass this job off to software rather then to do the job that they said that they would do. . . DC DC, Actually I know this.... I belong to a few that are moderated :-) Kathy > -----BEGIN PGP SIGNED MESSAGE----- > Hash: SHA1 [quoted text clipped - 24 lines] > =Qeqi > -----END PGP SIGNATURE----- Kathy, Then why make the statement "Alex is right, sorry to say because all these NG's are all unmoderated.... unfortunately, we all have to put up with some nonsense once in a while :-)?" DC | DC, | | Actually I know this.... I belong to a few that are moderated :-) | | Kathy DC, Sorry, I meant newsgroups such as the google newsgroups.... sorry about that :-) Kathy > -----BEGIN PGP SIGNED MESSAGE----- > Hash: SHA1 [quoted text clipped - 20 lines] > =Bsft > -----END PGP SIGNATURE----- | DC, | | Sorry, I meant newsgroups such as the google newsgroups.... sorry | about that :-) | | Kathy Kathy, That's ok, I kind of figured as much which is why I included the ";-)" at the end. And unlike some here I don't hold grudges. Glad to see that you don't either. DC DC, No way do I like to hold grudges.... life is too short! I just got over a flame war with someone from another NG and I think we both went away with hard feelings.... it's just not worth it anymore :-) > -----BEGIN PGP SIGNED MESSAGE----- > Hash: SHA1 [quoted text clipped - 20 lines] > =luhI > -----END PGP SIGNATURE----- | DC, | | No way do I like to hold grudges.... life is too short! I just got | over a flame war with someone from another NG and I think we both went | away with hard feelings.... it's just not worth it anymore :-) Kathy, Tell me about it. I recently this yr moved in with my 90 yr old grandmother who has Alzheimer. And ya can learn a lot about life in watching how the Alzheimer affects a person. . . DC DC, I have a lot of respect for you for taking care of your grandmother. It has got to be hard sometimes. Kathy > -----BEGIN PGP SIGNED MESSAGE----- > Hash: SHA1 [quoted text clipped - 19 lines] > =aH/k > -----END PGP SIGNATURE----- Kathy, Thank you it is rewarding. The only thing that I can say that I am saddened by is the fact that I am NOT the only grandchild, but I appear to be the ONLY grandchild who was willing to move in with her. Now granted my sister does have her own family, and as such couldn't realistically move in with her. And my brother has a girlfriend, but he could have made the "slight" adjustment and moved in with our grandmother. That aside the thing that really gets to me, is that NEITHER of them can stop by and visit with her. Oh, yes IT can be. Like IF she watches too much TV it can over stimulate her and the result is that she can be very argumentative, almost to the point of being combative. She also has a walker that she uses, BUT there are times when she thinks that she is "strong" enough NOT to need it,or that from time-to-time that it's good NOT to use it. Well unfortunately almost two wks ago because she was using this rational she fell, and banged up her left arm pretty bad. And as a result I've been sleeping downstairs on the couch so as to be there when she needs to get up in the middle of the night. . .I've also have had to help her change at night for bed, and again in the morning when she gets up. And IF she doesn't make it out back I get to help her into the shower so that she can clean up. . . And the "fun" thing is that I am one of her two MALE grandchildren. . .Fortunately though I spent 11 yrs in the Army as a medic so I've got the training to deal with her (Ok, granted it didn't cover Alzheimer, BUT I know enough from my training help her) and trust me IT does come in handy. . . DC | DC, | [quoted text clipped - 29 lines] | > =aH/k | > -----END PGP SIGNATURE----- DC, I also have respect for you for being in the army as well! My sister just got back from the middle east... she had to be over there for over a year and she is so glad to be back home now. Also one of my brothers was in the army for over 20 years. He is also a gulf war veteran. I know the feeling when you are NOT the only grandchild. My grandmother was in a nursing home for a few years... I would have taken her into my home, but I have a family and the kids were little at the time. Some of the other grandchildren didn't have kids and this is what really got to me... I visited my grandmother several times a week with my kids a long with me while she was in there and not ONCE, at least while I visited did any of the other grandchildren come in to see her... I would also ask the nurses if she had any visitors and every single time they would tell me that I was the only one... but yet, the other grandchildren would lie and tell other people that they visited her all of the time just to make themselves look good. My grandmother raised me since I was 15 and I figured going to see her almost everyday would be a little "thank you" to her. She also had Alzheimer's.... man, some of the things she would say was something else! She was never combative though, she was just always confused about who I was... she thought I was my mother, which my mother died many years before that. Hey feel free to drop me a line anytime so we can chat.... my e-mail is computermonkeyNOSPAM@inbox.net just remove NOSPAM before e-mailing.... anyone else in here can e-mail me too... Kathy > Kathy, > [quoted text clipped - 60 lines] > | > =aH/k > | > -----END PGP SIGNATURE----- Kathy.....the part about nobody else ever visiting them may need to be taken with a grain of salt. Nurses work different shifts or may not remember who came to see who in a nursing home. They are usually busy underfunded places in Canuckistan anyway. I am sure they always try to encourage visitors to come more often to lighten their patients lives. As far as the resident person telling you nobody ever visits them, all the older people say that. I get it from my other siblings with my mother, in a seniors home, and I see her every week. It could be time passes slowly for them between visits, gross exaggeration, bad memory, time distortions, or whatever but they all do it....LOL We just have to take it with a grain of salt because, who are we going to upset anyway, and what is the point? We know what we have done and what we have put out for them in our hearts. Don't be too hard on other offspring as there may be more truth in what they are saying then you think. Best of everything to you! > DC, > [quoted text clipped - 117 lines] > > | > =aH/k > > | > -----END PGP SIGNATURE----- Hello ER.... it was the nurses that told me no one was visiting... I had made friends with most of them there. No I don't hold it against my siblings... I totally forgot about it until this all was brought up *LOL* I still wouldn't hold it against them.... after all, life is too short to be fighting with them :-) > Kathy.....the part about nobody else ever visiting them may need to be taken > with a grain of salt. Nurses work different shifts or may not remember who [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] > > Best of everything to you! Many (not all) people are rude in newsgroups because they suffer from intelligence problems and lack proper upbringing. Others just simply suffer from other "lackings" which cause them to actually feel better if they make an other feel bad. It's a disease and it's a major problem for the planet. In other words it makes them feel beter to be hurtful than to be helpful. The net offers them an "outlet" for their "problem" where other people around them otherwise would not put up with them nor allow them to behave in such a manner. I find it's always the best practice to put out there, on the net, just exactly what it is you would like to get back. abused people are abused because they abuse themselves and others. Loving people are loving because they project love and that's what they get back. It's not possible for someone who lacks self-respect to respect others. It's actually humorous, or ridiculus, to notice that nasty people actually think projecting negativity empowers them when it actually causes them to loose ground and diminish their ability to connect with others. Beware also that NOT everyone who posts to a newsgroup is SOBER....hehe. It's obvious... Glenn Ogreenc Marin County, California > I subscribed to this list looking for friendly advice about my Bird I most > certainly [quoted text clipped - 21 lines] > To start a birthday book of your own enter here > http://www.birthdayalarm.com > Many (not all) people are rude in newsgroups because they suffer from > intelligence problems and lack proper upbringing. Others just simply suffer [quoted text clipped - 20 lines] > Glenn Ogreenc > Marin County, California Are you talking from experience? Do you lack a proper upbringing? I dont. Do you have inteligence problems? I dont. I lack nothing in my life. Were you abused? I wasnt. Are you a drunk? I'm not. Very clever post Glenn, relating your sad life to the rest of us Back on my killfilter list again. > Are you talking from experience? Do you lack a proper upbringing? I dont. > Do you have inteligence problems? I dont. > I lack nothing in my life. > Were you abused? I wasnt. > Are you a drunk? I'm not. > Very clever post Glenn, relating your sad life to the rest of us Thank you so much. Another of tony's relatives killfiles me. Bye bye > Back on my killfilter list again. > [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > > Are you a drunk? I'm not. > > Very clever post Glenn, relating your sad life to the rest of us Would somebody pleaase repeat this for R to see? Please check the date on my post. I hope this old post will be forgotten. ItThings were good and I liked it! > Thank you so much. > Another of tony's relatives killfiles me. > Bye bye > > > Back on my killfilter list again. > I subscribed to this list looking for friendly advice about my Bird I most > certainly > did not subscribe to this list to get all the bitching It comes with the territory, babe. > In the last week I left 2 lists because of nasty comments flying about who > needs > all that So you're going to stay on this newsgroup (it's not a "list") and play moderator? Good luck. > What is wrong with you if some of you do not like what we others post and > who we > are then leave the list Um.... you might want to consider taking your own advice. > but please just let us correspond in peace shame on > you grrr You just show up and start telling people who've been here for YEARS to post according to your rules or leave. Shame on you! SignatureMama ~^~^~^~ Visit Mamabird's Nest: <http://iluvbirds.tripod.com/> And My Photo Albums at: <http://photos.yahoo.com/iluvbirdz> "Chocolate makes your clothes shrink." ~^~^~^~^~^~^~^~^~^~^~^~^~^~^~^~^~ > > I subscribed to this list looking for friendly advice about my Bird I > most [quoted text clipped - 23 lines] > post according to your rules or leave. > Shame on you! Yeah. Wot *she* said. So there :0) > > > I subscribed to this list looking for friendly advice about my Bird I > > most [quoted text clipped - 26 lines] > > Yeah. Wot *she* said. So there :0) > I subscribed to this list looking for friendly advice about my Bird I most > certainly [quoted text clipped - 14 lines] > People watching may not be able to tell > the difference. buh-bye don't let the door hit you in the a.s on the way out. -- Steve > > I subscribed to this list looking for friendly advice about my Bird I most > > certainly [quoted text clipped - 9 lines] > on > > you grrr Ya gotta be tougher than that honey. I mean if plain old text is getting you down this hard, you need to grow some stones because the internet is NOT generally pleasureable for you 'why can't we all just get along types'. J |
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