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I miss my ratties!

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the Strauss Guy - 27 Jul 2004 03:50 GMT
About ten days ago, after researching pet mice and rats, I adopted two
rats from a woman who rescues rats.  They were both bucks, 3 months
old, from the same litter.  They were incredibly cute (of course!),
and I loved holding them, letting them crawl over me, and just
watching them.

I timed my adoption to occur when my wife and four children (ranging
in age from 6 to 12) were out of town.  My wife had had mice as a
child and didn't like them--didn't even think they were cute.  Also,
in turns out (and I learned this later) that in one of here high
school (?) biology classes, they had rats for six months or so.  She
insists that she's totally disgusted by their long tails.  (Of course,
anyone who's spent a little time with rats comes to appreciate the
tale as one of the distinctive parts of the rat anatonomy.)

My plan, then, was for my wife to come home, discover the rats, see
how much the children liked them, and to keep them.

Alas, it didn't work out that way.

When my wife noticed the rat habitat, she quickly left the room.  In
fact, she wouldn't even be in the same room with them!  My children,
by contrast, were terribly excited about the rats, and they were
thrilled to pet them and even hold them.

Needless to say, my wife won with nary a shot over the bow, so to
speak.  That evening, I returned the rats to the woman from whom I had
adopted them.

Right now, I'm feeling mildly bereaved.  I still miss my ratties!  I'm
not sure if I can ever persuade my wife to give rats a second chance.
Her view of rats seems to accord with George Orwell's nasty caricature
of the animals in _1984_.

Any suggestions?

straussGuy
Tracey - 27 Jul 2004 11:14 GMT
> About ten days ago, after researching pet mice and rats, I adopted two
> rats from a woman who rescues rats.  They were both bucks, 3 months
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> straussGuy

Is getting a new wife out of the question? Only joking...lol.  It's such a
shame she won't give these wonderful creatures a chance.  I've heard a few
people here say their partners didn't like their ratties when they first had
them (even some who had rat phobias) and as they slowly got to know the
little critters they fell in love with them.  Some of my friends used to be
rat-haters, usually citing 'the disgusting tail' as their main hate, but
after spending a little time with them they have grown to have a real soft
spot for my ratties and don't mind the tail whatsoever now.  So there is
hope...

Try showing her the following article
http://www.veterinarypartner.com/Content.plx?P=A&C=279&A=1018&S=0
If that's too long to work try this
http://littleurl.com/?01j2

Good luck!

Tracey
Kate - 27 Jul 2004 23:05 GMT
Being narrow minded and Rat haters intolerant... I would suggest putting the
wife up for adoption...:D  j/k.  Compromise is usually a good place to
start..  Best of luck.

Regards Kate
> About ten days ago, after researching pet mice and rats, I adopted two
> rats from a woman who rescues rats.  They were both bucks, 3 months
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> straussGuy
Mark Thompson - 28 Jul 2004 02:26 GMT
> Any suggestions?

Had the same problem with a girlfriend.  Introduced the possibility several
months before I planned to get a rat to give her time to get used/resigned
to the idea of them.  Mentioned that I was considering keeping them in the
bedroom/kitchen.  This enabled a 'compromise' of keeping them in the living
room (as I intended :-).  The killer was taking her to the shop with me -
baby rats look seriously cute & she was smitten by them instantly.  Letting
her name it also gave her some sort of feeling of ownership (it wasn't my
rat, it was *ours*).  This unfortunately left me with a rat called Baba.

I suggest harnessing the pester power of your kids. Spend more time with
them, take them on trips to the town, be sure to visit the pet shop (and
getthe staff to let them hold them).  Say they can have some if Mum says
yes....

Also, you may be able to get around wife by keeping the rats in the kids
rooms.  If you have a son then the rat might even be able to drown out the
'boy' smell that plagues their bedrooms (a mixture of BO; socks; and, if
you're lucky, deodorant.
J&S Bouchard - 29 Jul 2004 17:57 GMT
> About ten days ago, after researching pet mice and rats, I adopted two
> rats from a woman who rescues rats.  They were both bucks, 3 months
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> straussGuy

I had a rattie hating hubby... now he tolerates them.
But I must say: it is both your home and a compromise should be in order.
Ask her where could you keep the new love of your life, (ok,so don't use
those words), without offending her. Also, she may be upset about the whole
sneaking around thing. You need to tell her why you want them and that they
will fill a need in your life. Tell her it's better than going out with the
boys... unless you already do that and maybe could tell her no more going
out with the boys instead you'll be staying with rats. lol
I wish you lots of luck...
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