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Putting my rattie to sleep  :(

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ambicion6 - 21 Jul 2005 05:06 GMT
I have been looking for a sitter to watch my rat Monkey when I go on
vacation, this was about two weeks ago. Well, since that time, he has
gotten rather worse.  I know he can hold out for a month longer maybe
two. I just don't know if I want that quality of life for him.  I just
found 2 lumps on him today.  A big one, marble sized on his chest, and
a small little one (like the tip of a pen)on the edge of his eye by his
eyelid.

I had his brother Chunky put to sleep in February, and I know I waited
too long because I didn't want to let go.  When I took his brother
Chunky to be put to sleep, he had already lost use of everything.  He
couldn't eat, walk, or lift his head.  His body would go limp in my
hand.

Monkey isn't at that point yet.  He has lost use of his hindlegs but
can still eat.  He has problems with penis plugs though, which I remove
daily.  I also wash his lower body daily.

I'm just at odds on what to do.  We go on vacation in about 2 weeks.  I
can't find anyone to give him the care that I provide (i.e. removing
plugs, cleaning cage changing bedding daily, washing him - all daily).
In 5 days, I think he could suffer a lot more if the only care he gets
is food.  He's a little old man (2 1/2 yo) that needs a lot of care and
attention.

I think the big lump is an abscess because it moves around on his chest
and hes had an abscess under his chin before, but the eye one seems
more dangerous.  But here's another one of my dilemmas, if I have the
big abcess removed now, I fear it might get infected since I'm going to
vacation so soon and won't be able to watch him daily. And if its not
removed, and I wait until I get back, he might be in worse shape.

I just wish I didn't have to make this decision and so soon.   Why do
the little ones always hurt most on the heart?

Lili
Jackie Mullins - 21 Jul 2005 14:10 GMT
Hi Lili,
It is heartbreaking decision,but it really is what is best for Monkey, I had
all my 3 PTS when they were still eating and drinking because I knew it
would have to be done sooner rather than later when they are in pain and you
can usually bet it is a holiday or a weekend. I couldn't see my boys
suffering and the kids thought it was best too.
Best of luck with your decision, but only you can decide. It is really
painful.

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>I have been looking for a sitter to watch my rat Monkey when I go on
> vacation, this was about two weeks ago. Well, since that time, he has
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> Lili
ambicion6 - 21 Jul 2005 17:18 GMT
thanks Jackie,
I am taking him in Saturday morning. I feel guilty/selfish because he's
not in pain yet, but I dont want him to suffer later on either.  :(
Jackie Mullins - 21 Jul 2005 18:28 GMT
I really do sympathise but try to remember him happy and not to leave him
too long so he looks poorly and unhappy because it will upset you even more.
It's very hard but your heart will tell you that it is the right time.
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> thanks Jackie,
> I am taking him in Saturday morning. I feel guilty/selfish because he's
> not in pain yet, but I dont want him to suffer later on either.  :(
axemanchris - 21 Jul 2005 19:20 GMT
> thanks Jackie,
> I am taking him in Saturday morning. I feel guilty/selfish because he's
> not in pain yet, but I dont want him to suffer later on either.  :(

He sounds like he's had a good long life and a loving person to care for
him.  You are making the right decision to take him on Saturday.  Although
it's not  a great way to start your holiday, you can console yourself with
the fact that he's with his brother at Rainbow Bridge and you can enjoy your
holiday, instead of worrying about his declining health.  I would feel
guilty too, but you'd probably feel worse if something awful happened while
you were away.

Thinking of you.

Jacqui
Tania - 21 Jul 2005 18:51 GMT
My thoughts are with you Lili - It is always such a hard decision to make
:-(
Thinking of you x
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>I have been looking for a sitter to watch my rat Monkey when I go on
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> Lili
Jason and Holly Harper - 21 Jul 2005 23:34 GMT
Lili,
I'm sorry that you have to make that decision.  It's always a tough one to
make no matter how much you know it's for the best.  My thoughts are with
you...

Holly

>I have been looking for a sitter to watch my rat Monkey when I go on
> vacation, this was about two weeks ago. Well, since that time, he has
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> Lili
Kate - 23 Jul 2005 09:01 GMT
> I have been looking for a sitter to watch my rat Monkey when I go on
> vacation, this was about two weeks ago. Well, since that time, he has
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> Lili

Hello Lili,

Sadly this is a decision no one really wants to .. or enjoys making but
it does come with the responsibility of having the care of these
delightful creatures.  You have to ask yourself "Is is really kinder to
wait until he shows signs of pain" before setting him free?  or letting
him go without the knowledge of suffering.  For me it is always quality
over quantity and I would hate my Ratties last days to be painful
because I was too selfish to let them go.  You know deep down inside
what you will do and there are plenty here who will back you up
regardless.  I know I wish someone else would just say .."do this, or do
that"  but the responsibility in the end lies with you...:)

Kind regards
Kate.

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Rattlebugs - 23 Jul 2005 12:59 GMT
I never cried so hard in my life as I did the day I had to put my first
rattie down.  I felt such guilt even though it was time to let him go.  He
had advanced pneumonia and wasn't responding to antibiotics and fluids.
He'd been at the vet's office all day where they had been working with him
trying to get him to take in some nutrition and fluids.  When I got there
that afternoon to make the decision, he was so happy to see me and just
clung to me, my heart broke right then and there.  Still to this day my
heart has never mended.  He wasn't just my pet, he was my friend.  I guess
that sounds silly.  But I don't care.  In this life sometimes joy can be
hard to find, and if I find mine in a rat, I'll take it.  Even if it is
fleeting.  We can't be afraid of the pain that comes with the joy these
little guys bring us.  We are blessed people to know these little ones and
to have been a part of their lives.  Easier said than done, I know.

>I have been looking for a sitter to watch my rat Monkey when I go on
> vacation, this was about two weeks ago. Well, since that time, he has
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> Lili
Michael Rozdoba - 24 Jul 2005 02:00 GMT
> He wasn't just my pet, he was my friend.  I guess that sounds silly.
> But I don't care.

It doesn't sound silly to any rat owner or anyone with a heart.

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John Watson - 27 Jul 2005 03:15 GMT
We just had to put our little girl down due to a large tumor on her
shoulder.  It was a very difficult decision but, like you, I didn't want her
to be in any pain or have her quality of life suffer.

I was a bit surprised how attached we had become to this rat, Splinter.  I
have had all manner of pets in my life but never a rat.  They are so cute,
cuddly and smart, very easy to love.

My sympathies for your situation,

John
> I have been looking for a sitter to watch my rat Monkey when I go on
> vacation, this was about two weeks ago. Well, since that time, he has
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> Lili
 
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