Putting my rattie to sleep :(
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ambicion6 - 21 Jul 2005 05:06 GMT I have been looking for a sitter to watch my rat Monkey when I go on vacation, this was about two weeks ago. Well, since that time, he has gotten rather worse. I know he can hold out for a month longer maybe two. I just don't know if I want that quality of life for him. I just found 2 lumps on him today. A big one, marble sized on his chest, and a small little one (like the tip of a pen)on the edge of his eye by his eyelid.
I had his brother Chunky put to sleep in February, and I know I waited too long because I didn't want to let go. When I took his brother Chunky to be put to sleep, he had already lost use of everything. He couldn't eat, walk, or lift his head. His body would go limp in my hand.
Monkey isn't at that point yet. He has lost use of his hindlegs but can still eat. He has problems with penis plugs though, which I remove daily. I also wash his lower body daily.
I'm just at odds on what to do. We go on vacation in about 2 weeks. I can't find anyone to give him the care that I provide (i.e. removing plugs, cleaning cage changing bedding daily, washing him - all daily). In 5 days, I think he could suffer a lot more if the only care he gets is food. He's a little old man (2 1/2 yo) that needs a lot of care and attention.
I think the big lump is an abscess because it moves around on his chest and hes had an abscess under his chin before, but the eye one seems more dangerous. But here's another one of my dilemmas, if I have the big abcess removed now, I fear it might get infected since I'm going to vacation so soon and won't be able to watch him daily. And if its not removed, and I wait until I get back, he might be in worse shape.
I just wish I didn't have to make this decision and so soon. Why do the little ones always hurt most on the heart?
Lili
Jackie Mullins - 21 Jul 2005 14:10 GMT Hi Lili, It is heartbreaking decision,but it really is what is best for Monkey, I had all my 3 PTS when they were still eating and drinking because I knew it would have to be done sooner rather than later when they are in pain and you can usually bet it is a holiday or a weekend. I couldn't see my boys suffering and the kids thought it was best too. Best of luck with your decision, but only you can decide. It is really painful.
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>I have been looking for a sitter to watch my rat Monkey when I go on > vacation, this was about two weeks ago. Well, since that time, he has [quoted text clipped - 32 lines] > > Lili ambicion6 - 21 Jul 2005 17:18 GMT thanks Jackie, I am taking him in Saturday morning. I feel guilty/selfish because he's not in pain yet, but I dont want him to suffer later on either. :(
Jackie Mullins - 21 Jul 2005 18:28 GMT I really do sympathise but try to remember him happy and not to leave him too long so he looks poorly and unhappy because it will upset you even more. It's very hard but your heart will tell you that it is the right time.
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> thanks Jackie, > I am taking him in Saturday morning. I feel guilty/selfish because he's > not in pain yet, but I dont want him to suffer later on either. :( axemanchris - 21 Jul 2005 19:20 GMT > thanks Jackie, > I am taking him in Saturday morning. I feel guilty/selfish because he's > not in pain yet, but I dont want him to suffer later on either. :( He sounds like he's had a good long life and a loving person to care for him. You are making the right decision to take him on Saturday. Although it's not a great way to start your holiday, you can console yourself with the fact that he's with his brother at Rainbow Bridge and you can enjoy your holiday, instead of worrying about his declining health. I would feel guilty too, but you'd probably feel worse if something awful happened while you were away.
Thinking of you.
Jacqui
Tania - 21 Jul 2005 18:51 GMT My thoughts are with you Lili - It is always such a hard decision to make
:-( Thinking of you x
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>I have been looking for a sitter to watch my rat Monkey when I go on > vacation, this was about two weeks ago. Well, since that time, he has [quoted text clipped - 32 lines] > > Lili Jason and Holly Harper - 21 Jul 2005 23:34 GMT Lili, I'm sorry that you have to make that decision. It's always a tough one to make no matter how much you know it's for the best. My thoughts are with you...
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>I have been looking for a sitter to watch my rat Monkey when I go on > vacation, this was about two weeks ago. Well, since that time, he has [quoted text clipped - 32 lines] > > Lili Kate - 23 Jul 2005 09:01 GMT > I have been looking for a sitter to watch my rat Monkey when I go on > vacation, this was about two weeks ago. Well, since that time, he has [quoted text clipped - 32 lines] > > Lili Hello Lili,
Sadly this is a decision no one really wants to .. or enjoys making but it does come with the responsibility of having the care of these delightful creatures. You have to ask yourself "Is is really kinder to wait until he shows signs of pain" before setting him free? or letting him go without the knowledge of suffering. For me it is always quality over quantity and I would hate my Ratties last days to be painful because I was too selfish to let them go. You know deep down inside what you will do and there are plenty here who will back you up regardless. I know I wish someone else would just say .."do this, or do that" but the responsibility in the end lies with you...:)
Kind regards Kate.
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Rattlebugs - 23 Jul 2005 12:59 GMT I never cried so hard in my life as I did the day I had to put my first rattie down. I felt such guilt even though it was time to let him go. He had advanced pneumonia and wasn't responding to antibiotics and fluids. He'd been at the vet's office all day where they had been working with him trying to get him to take in some nutrition and fluids. When I got there that afternoon to make the decision, he was so happy to see me and just clung to me, my heart broke right then and there. Still to this day my heart has never mended. He wasn't just my pet, he was my friend. I guess that sounds silly. But I don't care. In this life sometimes joy can be hard to find, and if I find mine in a rat, I'll take it. Even if it is fleeting. We can't be afraid of the pain that comes with the joy these little guys bring us. We are blessed people to know these little ones and to have been a part of their lives. Easier said than done, I know.
>I have been looking for a sitter to watch my rat Monkey when I go on > vacation, this was about two weeks ago. Well, since that time, he has [quoted text clipped - 32 lines] > > Lili Michael Rozdoba - 24 Jul 2005 02:00 GMT > He wasn't just my pet, he was my friend. I guess that sounds silly. > But I don't care. It doesn't sound silly to any rat owner or anyone with a heart.
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John Watson - 27 Jul 2005 03:15 GMT We just had to put our little girl down due to a large tumor on her shoulder. It was a very difficult decision but, like you, I didn't want her to be in any pain or have her quality of life suffer.
I was a bit surprised how attached we had become to this rat, Splinter. I have had all manner of pets in my life but never a rat. They are so cute, cuddly and smart, very easy to love.
My sympathies for your situation,
John
> I have been looking for a sitter to watch my rat Monkey when I go on > vacation, this was about two weeks ago. Well, since that time, he has [quoted text clipped - 32 lines] > > Lili
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