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J&S Bouchard - 28 Aug 2003 20:19 GMT
My beautiful Shai came to live with me in May of 2002. I bought him at a
Barrie pet store, after seeing him cramped in a 10 gallon tank with his two
brothers and two older rats. The older rats where picking on the young ones
that were always cowering in a corner. So I bought Shai and his two
brothers. Shai was a slate blue american berkshire Dumbo... a beautiful rat
for sure. He developed myco at a very young age and in his short life has
been medicated on three different occasion. Most recently the meds didn't
work and Shai left me today at 2:42PM, a very young 18 months. It was a long
struggle for him but he died in my arms. I told him it was ok to go... that
I would see him again some day... I feel comforted in knowing that Shai is
joining Koko, Ira and Maxwell... and I'm sure together they are having a
great time at the bridge. His body has been buried in our Angels Garden with
the others.
Shai was a misunderstood rat. The average person would think him to be an
aggressive biter, but he wasn't. He was just scared all the time probably
from the early abuse. When I put him in his own cage with his two brothers,
he calmed down big time and became so sweet. When I offered him food, he
would gently take it from my fingers being so careful as to not touch me.
Shai was strong and took no beef from no one but he was fair. I love you my
darling Shai...
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lOw - 28 Aug 2003 21:26 GMT
J&S Bouchard a écrit:
> My beautiful Shai came to live with me in May of 2002. I bought him at a
> Barrie pet store, after seeing him cramped in a 10 gallon tank with his two
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> Shai was strong and took no beef from no one but he was fair. I love you my
> darling Shai...

you *are* a true rat lover... I feel the same about my pipo who's
sometimes nipping people's fingers (not mine tho, how odd...) when they
stick them through the cage. people just cant handle the fact that a rat
is a living creature, who has every right to feel territory, or just
plain moody (it's just a quick hardly painful nip, I'm not even talking
about hard mean bites). And the same people will repeatedly test him,
stick fingers through the bars, eventually get nipped again, and whine,
instead of playing with mumu who's the calm and wise type of guy.
sometimes I feel that people are not too interested in trying to
understand pets' point of views.

anyway, I'm sorry for shai, his life has been really short, you seem to
take it with great wisdom and compassion. my ratties are 15 months now,
and although they are in great shape, i cant help thinking about the
time when they'll begin to show signs of old age, weakness, god knows
what else... I hope i can handle it like you do.

take care.

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J&S Bouchard - 29 Aug 2003 03:24 GMT
> you *are* a true rat lover... I feel the same about my pipo who's
> sometimes nipping people's fingers (not mine tho, how odd...) when they
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> take care.

That is so true about our "biters"... it's all in how they are handled.
Thank you for your words of comfort.
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Susan Aplin - 28 Aug 2003 22:17 GMT
Dear Joanne,
We are so very sorry to hear of Shai's passing.It is always that little bit
harder to take when they are relatively young.I know we always say this but
it is true - how lucky Shai was to have you as his mom.
Sue and Hayley
> My beautiful Shai came to live with me in May of 2002. I bought him at a
> Barrie pet store, after seeing him cramped in a 10 gallon tank with his two
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J&S Bouchard - 29 Aug 2003 03:25 GMT
> Dear Joanne,
> We are so very sorry to hear of Shai's passing.It is always that little bit
> harder to take when they are relatively young.I know we always say this but
> it is true - how lucky Shai was to have you as his mom.
> Sue and Hayley

Thank you Susan... it's so nice to be able to come here and grieve with
those who knows the love we feel for these beauties.
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Kate - 28 Aug 2003 23:16 GMT
Oh Joanne,

Im so sorry..:(  ..
My thoughts are with you...  another well loved Rattie has moved on....
Just a whisper away Joanne.  Hugs to you and scritches to the Ratties

Regards Kate
> My beautiful Shai came to live with me in May of 2002. I bought him at a
> Barrie pet store, after seeing him cramped in a 10 gallon tank with his two
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> Shai was strong and took no beef from no one but he was fair. I love you my
> darling Shai...
Candace Gullette - 29 Aug 2003 03:05 GMT
I'm so sorry to hear of Shai's passing.  It seems he had a very good life with
you, though short.  I have lost 2 birds since May and can not imagine having to
go through any more loss anytime soon.  My thoughts are with you..... stay
strong.

Candace

> My beautiful Shai came to live with me in May of 2002. I bought him at a
> Barrie pet store, after seeing him cramped in a 10 gallon tank with his two
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J&S Bouchard - 29 Aug 2003 03:26 GMT
> I'm so sorry to hear of Shai's passing.  It seems he had a very good life with
> you, though short.  I have lost 2 birds since May and can not imagine having to
> go through any more loss anytime soon.  My thoughts are with you..... stay
> strong.
>
> Candace

It is so unbelievably hard isn't it? Thank you Candace.
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Candace Gullette - 29 Aug 2003 22:49 GMT
Yes.... it is very hard.  They are like my children in a lot of ways.  You are
very strong it seems and I only hope I can be as strong as you when another one
of my animal children pass.

Candace

> > I'm so sorry to hear of Shai's passing.  It seems he had a very good life
> with
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YSB - 29 Aug 2003 03:54 GMT
Oh Joanne... I'm so sorry.  Please know that you are in my thoughts.

Yana

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Lucat bene si ergo
Fortibus es inaero
O nobil demis trux
Sum es causen summit dux
                          -- Anon

> My beautiful Shai came to live with me in May of 2002. I bought him at a
> Barrie pet store, after seeing him cramped in a 10 gallon tank with his two
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J&S Bouchard - 29 Aug 2003 03:56 GMT
> Oh Joanne... I'm so sorry.  Please know that you are in my thoughts.
>
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> Sum es causen summit dux
>                            -- Anon

Thank you, Yana... all this support really helps.
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Sue Schultz - 29 Aug 2003 04:01 GMT
I'm so sorry Joanne about Shai.........Just know that you gave him a
wonderful life........
Sue
> My beautiful Shai came to live with me in May of 2002. I bought him at a
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Tracey - 29 Aug 2003 11:27 GMT
Joanne, I'm so very sorry to hear about little Shai.  He had the best home,
full of all the love and care any rattie could ever wish for.  Like Shai, my
little Oscar died in my arms and I whispered to him goodbye and that I would
see him again one day, almost straight after my words he died.  I'm sure
they understand.  And I'm sure we'll all be re-united one day.

My thought are with you at this sad time.

Tracey
J&S Bouchard - 29 Aug 2003 13:15 GMT
> Joanne, I'm so very sorry to hear about little Shai.  He had the best home,
> full of all the love and care any rattie could ever wish for.  Like Shai, my
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> Tracey

Thank you Tracey...  I think they do indeed hear us.
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a.veg - 29 Aug 2003 13:52 GMT
: My beautiful Shai came to live with me in May of 2002. I bought him at a
: Barrie pet store, after seeing him cramped in a 10 gallon tank with his two
[quoted text clipped - 16 lines]
: Shai was strong and took no beef from no one but he was fair. I love you my
: darling Shai...

So sorry to hear of your loss Joanne.  It's heartbreaking when you lose
someone so dear :-(

My heart goes out to you.

Regards
parsnip
J&S Bouchard - 29 Aug 2003 15:27 GMT
> : My beautiful Shai came to live with me in May of 2002. I bought him at a
> : Barrie pet store, after seeing him cramped in a 10 gallon tank with his
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> Regards
> parsnip

Thank you parsnip...
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Klary - 29 Aug 2003 18:16 GMT
Hi Joanne..
I am so sorry for your loss.
Keep the memory alive.. sometimes I have these really vivid memories
of my two rats that died last year. Their lives may be short but they
leave so much behind.
They never really go away!
take care,
klary

> > : My beautiful Shai came to live with me in May of 2002. I bought him at a
> > : Barrie pet store, after seeing him cramped in a 10 gallon tank with his
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> > : darling Shai...
Jen - 30 Aug 2003 12:31 GMT
So sorry to hear of your loss Joanne. Shai had the best life he could have
dreamed of with you and he will always be with you.

My thoughts are with you.

Jen

> My beautiful Shai came to live with me in May of 2002. I bought him at a
> Barrie pet store, after seeing him cramped in a 10 gallon tank with his two
[quoted text clipped - 16 lines]
> Shai was strong and took no beef from no one but he was fair. I love you my
> darling Shai...
J&S Bouchard - 30 Aug 2003 18:41 GMT
> So sorry to hear of your loss Joanne. Shai had the best life he could have
> dreamed of with you and he will always be with you.
>
> My thoughts are with you.
>
> Jen

Thank you, Jen.
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