I used to breed white rats for roughly 6 'generations'. I used to give
them baths every now and then and once they got over the initial shock
of suddenly being in water, they quite enjoyed themselves. All except
one. One of my rats, Stashy, absolutely hated baths. She was so
terrified she shook for hours after we gave her one. I never gave her
another one after that. My mum and dad were always very keen on my
rats and it was my dad who actually trained them to be very loving
pets. When I was out one day, I phoned my mum to come and pick me up.
When we pulled into the street she stopped me half way up the path
and told me she had some bad news. Stashy was very old and weak and
was clearly nearing the end of her lifespan but was still energetic
and loving and a brilliant pet. My mum decided to give her a bath
while I was out. She was so frightened that she had a heart attack
and died. I couldn't speak to my mum for a week after that. She had
killed my favourite rat and best friend at the time. I was
devastated. All my other females noticed that Stashy was gone and
that there was something wrong with me. They spent the next week by
my side all the time I was in the house and cheered me up. I've never
forgiven my mum for killing Stashy, but there's isn't much I can do
about it now.
Tracey - 29 Oct 2003 14:31 GMT
> I used to breed white rats for roughly 6 'generations'. I used to give
> them baths every now and then and once they got over the initial shock
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> forgiven my mum for killing Stashy, but there's isn't much I can do
> about it now.
That must have been so very upsetting for you, it must have been a big shock
to your mum too - I'm sure she has regretted her mistake ever since and it
must upset her to see how hurt you are over it. She probably didn't know
how much little Stashy hated baths.
I have never had a rat yet that likes baths. They have always been
terrified and poop and squeek like they are being tortured. They fall out
with me too for at least a couple of hours afterwards. So unless absolutely
necessary I don't put them through it. They mostly don't need bathing
anyway cos they keep themselves clean.
Don't you keep rats anymore? Sometimes it's so sad and upsetting when out
little friends die, you think you can't keep going through it and decide not
to have any more. I have been through this - vowed never to have anymore
rats since their little lives are so short and it causes so much upset when
they die. I didn't last long though, only a few months - found I just
missed the little critters being in my life too much! It is distressing
when they pass away, but think of all the happy memories you are left with.
I bet you have so many memories of your little Stashy and nobody can ever
take those away.
Take care.
Tracey
J&S Bouchard - 29 Oct 2003 18:23 GMT
> I used to breed white rats for roughly 6 'generations'. I used to give
> them baths every now and then and once they got over the initial shock
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> forgiven my mum for killing Stashy, but there's isn't much I can do
> about it now.
That must have been such a hard and trying time for you and your mom. Your
mom didn't mean to hurt the poor rattie.
Your rattie was already getting old and weak before the onset of the heart
attack. Death came quick and your sweetie became happy as he waddled over
the bridge to meet all the other great rats there.
You are right that bath time is not for all. I had on rat, that I think
would also have had a heart attack if I had forced him into the water. You
really need to be able to "read" your rat and see if bath time is for
him/her.
Thank you for sharing your experience. It's good to see all sides of
everything.

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Kate - 29 Oct 2003 22:28 GMT
Im sure your Mother was doing it with the best of intentions..and if you
feel that badly about it, perhaps you should think how your Mum feels? It
is very sad indeed but accidents do happen and as we are all human we are
all capable of not always making the best decisions... I hope both you and
your Mum can find a middle ground where the blame and shame ends.
Regards Kate
> I used to breed white rats for roughly 6 'generations'. I used to give
> them baths every now and then and once they got over the initial shock
[quoted text clipped - 16 lines]
> forgiven my mum for killing Stashy, but there's isn't much I can do
> about it now.