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Nobody's Fool - 18 Dec 2004 04:46 GMT My aunt recently moved in with us, and brought with her middle aged Burmese cat, Cosmo. I'm not sure exactly how old he is, but I'd put him about 5-7 years. He's got to stay in the bathroom with the lights off most of the day because he gets into things too much if we leave him out. As a result, he's really lonely and makes quite a fuss, crying for up to 2 or 3 hours at a time if nobody comes to visit him. It doesn't bother us during the day because we're not home, but I feel really awful because he sounds so lonely. He keeps my aunt up most of the night too, because he gets really loud. I'll go play with him most days, but sometimes I'm just so busy that I can't drain him of all of his energy before I have to move on to something else. What I'm wondering is if anyone knows of a toy or something that would keep him better occupied during the day when nobody's home. We've tried some toys before, but he doesn't seem to be too interested in them unless someone else is showing him exactly what to do.
Thanks in advance, Elisabeth (Y) ( ' ' ) O((''') (''')
Judy - 18 Dec 2004 08:02 GMT > My aunt recently moved in with us, and brought with her middle aged > Burmese [quoted text clipped - 20 lines] > Thanks in advance, > Elisabeth The solution to your problem is simple......................find this cat a home with people who have an appreciation for and an understanding of cats.
In the meantime, I will keep my fingers crossed that you choose never to become a parent.
buglady - 18 Dec 2004 12:05 GMT > My aunt recently moved in with us, and brought with her middle aged Burmese > cat, Cosmo. I'm not sure exactly how old he is, but I'd put him about 5-7 > years. He's got to stay in the bathroom with the lights off most of the day > because he gets into things too much if we leave him out. .........like what? What does he do? Was it not clear in the beginning that her cat was coming with her? Have you never lived with pets before? When was the last time the cat had a vet check?
As a result, he's
> really lonely and makes quite a fuss, crying for up to 2 or 3 hours at a > time if nobody comes to visit him. It doesn't bother us during the day > because we're not home, ........is your aunt working also or is she home during the day? What a miserable life for this kitty. He probably can't figure out what he did that caused him to end up in jail.
but I feel really awful because he sounds so lonely.
> He keeps my aunt up most of the night too, .......why? is he locked up in the bathroom at night too? Doesn't she have a room of her own where the kitty could stay during the day?
> What I'm wondering is if anyone knows of a toy or something .......yes, the something is human companionship. His situation reminds me of those dogs I see in elevated cages in the yard - stuck out there all day and night with nothing to do and no room to have a good run. You could put some of your valuable stuff away for a while and let the kitty out. Change of household is a big stress for a cat. He's probably feeling really insecure if he knows nothing of the house outside the bathroom. He'd probably settle down after a while. It's nice of you to take in your aunt, but the kitty shouldn't be paying for her change in household. She might be feeling really bad that her kitty has to live this way. If your home is a place of last resort and she has nowhere else to go, then it is up to you to make her AND her kitty feel welcome. You said yes after all. You either meant it or you didn't. If she had a kid that spilled grape juice on the carpet you wouldn't lock her up in the bathroom too would you? It's a big change for everyone in your household and you all need to sit down and talk. If she's not attached to the cat enough to care, then the kitty should get a new home where he's welcome.
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Nobody's Fool - 18 Dec 2004 16:47 GMT Hey, look, it's not like I don't care about this cat. This isn't my house either, it's my parents. I've taken every measure I can to keep him company, but when I've suggested leaving him out at least on the days that my father works from home, they flat out refuse, and I choose not to argue with them because (esp. if you're a parent) you know it'll get me nowhere. My aunt has only come to live with us short term, because she's escaped an abusive husband. This cat is all she's got left. I see what you're saying. Actually, this is what I was expecting to hear, if not with such a hostile delivery. I'm only a kid with no control trying to help a cat. By the way, JUDY, I'm not planning on having kids. So go have your little moment of victory now.
> > My aunt recently moved in with us, and brought with her middle aged > Burmese [quoted text clipped - 39 lines] > buglady > take out the dog before replying Mary - 19 Dec 2004 02:26 GMT > Hey, look, it's not like I don't care about this cat. This isn't my house > either, it's my parents. I've taken every measure I can to keep him [quoted text clipped - 8 lines] > By the way, JUDY, I'm not planning on having kids. So go have your little > moment of victory now. What the hell is wrong with your parents?
Nobody's Fool - 19 Dec 2004 04:06 GMT I've wanted to ask them that more times that you can ever know. I don't know if it's because they're materialistic and don't want their belongings out in danger, or the only animals they've had around the house for as long as we can remember are guinea pigs and they're not used to handling anything more high maintenance than that...I really don't know. I'm trying to get at my mom though, since she's the one who feels the worst about it, and I think that I may be able to convince her to talk to my dad about letting the poor guy out more.
> > Hey, look, it's not like I don't care about this cat. This isn't my > house [quoted text clipped - 12 lines] > > What the hell is wrong with your parents? Mary - 19 Dec 2004 18:54 GMT > I've wanted to ask them that more times that you can ever know. I don't > know if it's because they're materialistic and don't want their belongings [quoted text clipped - 4 lines] > that I may be able to convince her to talk to my dad about letting the poor > guy out more. Poor thing. You are a good person. Your parents could learn something from you if they would wake up. My flippant phrase to my anal retentive mother-in-law is: "Here is a clue for you: anything with a pulse takes precedence over anything without one." Perhaps you might remind her that animals have feelings--and reassure them that you would watch the cat while you are home. Maybe put a bell on his collar to assure them you could keep track of him? PLEASE don't even entertain any of the stupid comments regarding "re-homing" him. This woman needs this cat now, and he her. If your parents are compassionate enough to help her, they can be reached regarding the cat. Good luck.
> > > Hey, look, it's not like I don't care about this cat. This isn't my > > house [quoted text clipped - 18 lines] > > > > What the hell is wrong with your parents? buglady - 19 Dec 2004 12:21 GMT > Hey, look, it's not like I don't care about this cat. This isn't my house > either, it's my parents. ..........it would have helped to know this in your first post. Obviously the situation is out of your control since it isn't your house.
I've taken every measure I can to keep him
> company, but when I've suggested leaving him out at least on the days that > my father works from home, they flat out refuse, and I choose not to argue > with them because (esp. if you're a parent) you know it'll get me nowhere. .......many people just don't like cats or any critter they don't feel they have complete control over. Arguing won't solve the situation. You want your way - they want theirs. You should aim for somewhere in the middle that will be Ok (but not perfect) with everyone and make a better life for the kitty. Both sides have to give something up - not just one side.
...........do a Dear Abby and show them my post. or tell them all you want for Xmas is for this kitty to have a better life while he's in the house.
> My aunt has only come to live with us short term, because she's escaped an > abusive husband. This cat is all she's got left. ................Good for her for leaving. Give your aunt a hug every chance you get and tell her how glad you are she's there. Once again I say - to your 'RENTS - you invited her into the house with her cat. Don't make her feel unwelcome by taking it out on the cat. It's petty, mean-spirited and dishonest. You should feel grateful you can offfer shelter to someone so desperately in need and not sweat the small stuff. And think about the example you're setting for your children. Especially at this time of year.
> I see what you're saying. Actually, this is what I was expecting to hear, > if not with such a hostile delivery. I'm only a kid with no control trying > to help a cat. ........And kudos to you for doing so, but no one knew that ok? It would help if you'd answered some questions I had. Why does the cat keep your aunt up all night? Where is the cat at night? Where does your aunt sleep - in her own room? When was the last time the cat has been to the vet - there might be medical reasons for the distress too. There may be compromises that would make a better life for the cat while your aunt is there but we need some details first.
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Nobody's Fool - 21 Dec 2004 02:02 GMT ..........it would have helped to know this in your first post. Obviously
> the situation is out of your control since it isn't your house. I'm sorry for not mentioning that. I thought that it wouldn't really make a difference, seeing as I figured people would simply give me advice because I'm trying to care for the cat in any case. I try to give out the least amount of personal info on the internet as possible for obvious reasons as well. To answer your questions: Why does the cat keep your aunt up all night? The cat--his name is Cosmo--keeps my aunt up at night because when he is first put up at night, he meows for several hours on and off.
Where is the cat at night? We have a "mother-in-law" house, which is kind of like 2 houses stacked on top of each other. My aunt is living in the downstairs half. There's a bathroom and storage room on one end, and a hallway that goes to the bedroom, which is situated at the opposite end. Off to the side are her living room and kitchen. Because we were using the bedroom as a sewing room for my mom and a small guest bedroom, there's a lot of stuff in there. Cosmo is a VERY curious cat--the type that shuts himself inside closets and cries until someone lets him out, just so he can do it again--and she (my aunt) doesn't want the cat or herself to impose on us in any way, so she keeps him in the bathroom at night. I've given him some extra blankets and things so he can curl up and get comfortable, and even though my aunt has said she doesn't want him to be in the sewing room, I let him tour sometimes when she's not home so he is at least a little more familiar with his surroundings. This is a big house overall--about 6000 sq. Ft. with the garage, and the downstairs "apartment" is about half the house. So, you can imagine that it's a pretty long distance from the bathroom to the bedroom, but he's still making such a noise that it's difficult for her to sleep some nights. I think part of it is that at her old place, my aunt had the room "Cosmo-proof" and so he got to sleep in there with her. Now, he's really lonely. Also, this cat sometimes just does weird stuff...I think the crying is a part of it, however small. When was the last time the cat has been to the vet? He goes and gets regular check ups, and the only thing I know is wrong with him is he has some sort of rare cat herpes that affect his eyes. I know that he takes meds for it but that it can be re-activated by stress, so he might need to go get another check up. He's acting very upbeat and when I let him out today (I'm on Winter break the next couple of weeks, so he's been out all day today since about 7:00 and he's still out now) he raced me down the hallway. Anyway, he's still crying at night, but he's doing it less than he was when he first got here, so maybe he's finally settling in a bit. ~Elisabeth
> > Hey, look, it's not like I don't care about this cat. This isn't my > house [quoted text clipped - 42 lines] > buglady > take out the dog before replying buglady - 21 Dec 2004 23:05 GMT > Where is the cat at night? We have a "mother-in-law" house, which is kind of > like 2 houses stacked on top of each other. My aunt is living in the > downstairs half <snip> Because we were using the
> bedroom as a sewing room for my mom and a small guest bedroom, there's a lot > of stuff in there. Cosmo is a VERY curious cat--the type that shuts himself [quoted text clipped - 3 lines] > This is a big house overall--about 6000 sq. Ft. with the garage, and the > downstairs "apartment" is about half the house. I think part of it is that at her old place, my aunt had the room
> "Cosmo-proof" and so he got to sleep in there with her. .............You need to help your aunt off the hook. She's already feeling small, she doesn't need to make herself smaller and smaller. Closet doors and storage room doors can be closed so the cat can't get in there. Is your mom going to be sewing when your aunt is here? Can some of the stuff be boxed up and put out of the way? IOW, cat proof her part of the house. She won't offer to do this herself. She'll have to know that it's OK with you folks. Sounds like there's plenty of room in a 6000 sq foot house to be able to let the cat out in her part of the house when she's home and have her in her bedroom at night. I'm assuming the downstairs can be closed off from the upstairs? After the kitty is used to the place he might be Ok leaving him out in her part of the house during the daytime, but the immediate goal is to get him out of the bathroom at night.
> When was the last time the cat has been to the vet? the only thing I know is wrong with
> him is he has some sort of rare cat herpes that affect his eyes. I know > that he takes meds for it but that it can be re-activated by stress, so he > might need to go get another check up. ..................I'd think about lysine (an amino acid) - think the dose for ocular herpes is 250 mg/day. you can fiind that info online (try marvistavet) or in the archives of this NG at Google.
He's acting very upbeat and when I
> let him out today (I'm on Winter break the next couple of weeks, so he's > been out all day today since about 7:00 and he's still out now) he raced me > down the hallway. > Anyway, he's still crying at night, but he's doing it less than he was when > he first got here, so maybe he's finally settling in a bit. .......Hopefully he is. Cats do not deal with moves very well. I have one cat that doesn't even like the furniture moved around. Exercise is good for burning off energy and anxiety. Here's a good playtime idea. Get a bunch of newspaper and spread it around on the floor. Get a long thin stick and move it around under the paper. You might have to sweep after this game as there's usually bits of paper on the floor! Cats are like dogs though - they don't play much by themselves. I have one of those plastic rings with a pingpong ball inside. They all loved it at first - now no one looks at it unless I move the ball around.
good luck to you; and don't forget to hug your aunt!
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Gail Futoran - 18 Dec 2004 19:55 GMT > My aunt recently moved in with us, and brought with her middle aged > Burmese [quoted text clipped - 23 lines] > ( ' ' ) > O((''') (''') Hi Elisabeth -
A cheap "toy" is a cardboard box with cat-sized holes cut in it, and maybe some round plastic toys (easy to find in any pet store) that a cat can bat around on the floor. You can even build a cheap tower of such boxes and maybe put some old towels in for him to sleep on or play with.
If there is carpet in the bathroom suggest taking it up while the cat is locked up, so he can bat things around on the tile more easily than on rugs. But make a little "nest" for him with old towels in a cardboard box for sleeping.
Even crumpled up paper can be a fun toy. I wouldn't leave a shoelace in the room if he's not used to those, because he could possibly hurt himelf, but that's another cheap toy you could use when you visit him. All my cats enjoy playing with a shoelace, as long as I'm willing to do most of the work!
Is there a reason why the light has to be off? I don't know if that would make a difference, but maybe leaving the light on more often would be worth trying to see if it would help. Another trick to try would be a radio, tuned to a talk station (cats seem to prefer talk to music).
If the situation becomes intolerable, let your family know there are Burmese rescue organizations (easy to find online) that can help in re-homing a healthy Burmese. Better than taking him to a local shelter where he'd most likely be killed. :( I'm not suggesting you would do that, but when people's lives are really upset, as the case with your aunt, sometimes the pet ends up last in the priority list.
It's nice that you're trying to help the cat. I hope things work out for everyone.
Gail owned by: 2 Tonkinese, 1 Calico, 2 Burmese cats
Steph - 18 Dec 2004 20:43 GMT Silly me.. I thought that this newgroup was out there to HELP people?!?!? Why must everyone be attacking everyone all the time. Some people have questions because they don't know how to deal with things so they come for HELP. Is it not the "duty" of people with experience to help those who don't??? I don't know anything about pluming...if I called a plumber and he reamed me out for asking how to unclog my toilet than I'd rip a strip off of him because he's suppoed to HELP me. Regardless of what's shes doing right now, she's asking for help. She obviously agrees that it's not fair for the cat to spend its time in the bathroom so she's asking for help. This is so stupid that we can't just help people when they're asking for it! With all the hatred in the world...why do we have to keep adding to it. I agree that people should speek their minds. But she's not beating the cat or neglecting it. Its still getting food, she goes and plays with it, shes trying to convince her parents to let the cat run around...seems like that problem isn't her its her parents.... As for the oringal post...if you have to lock the cat up can you lock it in a bigger place than the bathroom? Like the basement or something. I know that my cats love those little crinckle balls or catnip. That keeps them busy for hours on end. Or the toys that are like a long pole with at string on it with a clip on the end that you can change the toys on the end of it. I'd look around and test out some toys to see what your kitty likes best. There is probably some websites about Burmese that'll say what their favourite toys are. There is websites about everything.
The Puppy Wizard - 29 Dec 2004 22:43 GMT HOWEDY Nobody's Fool,
> My aunt recently moved in with us, and brought > with her middle aged Burmese cat, Cosmo. That's NICE.
> I'm not sure exactly how old he is, but I'd put him > about 5-7 years. Kats live 20 years or MOORE.
> He's got to stay in the bathroom with the > lights off most of the day THAT'S no kinda life.
> because he gets into things too > much if we leave him out. NO PROBLEMO! You can TRAIN your kat JUST LIKE HOWE you'd TRAIN a dog or child:
You GET The Critter You TRAINED
A DOG Is A Dog; As A KAT Is A KAT; As A BIRDY Is A BIRDY; As A CHILD IS A CHILD; As A SP-HOWES Is a SP-HOWES.
ALL Behavior Problems Are CAUSED BY MISHANDLING
> As a result, he's really lonely and makes quite a fuss, > crying for up to 2 or 3 hours at a time if nobody comes > to visit him. THAT will make him INSANE like MOST of HOWER DOG LOVER'S DOGS here on The Amazing Puppy Wizard's FREE WWW Wits' End Dog Training Method Forums and HUMAN BEHAVIOR RESEARCH LABORATORY.
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> It doesn't bother us during the day > because we're not home, RIGHT.
ALL Critters Only Respond In PREDICTABLE INNATE NORMAL NATURAL INSTINCTIVE REFLEXIVE Ways; To Situations And Circumstances Of Their Environment Which We Create For Them.
Damn The Descartean War of "Nature Vs Nurture." We Teach By HOWER Words And Actions And GET BACK What We TAUGHT.
> but I feel really awful because he sounds so lonely. FEELINS again...
"It is by muteness that a dog becomes so utterly beyond value."
Like a confessor Priest?
"With him, words play no torturing tricks.........., " --John Galsworthy.
Don't bet your dog won't tell on you... Their behaviors reflect HOWER words, actions and training quirks. Jerry HOWE, The Puppy Wizard. <{} ; ~ ) >
> He keeps my aunt up most of the night too, > because he gets really loud. That's UNACCEPTABLE.
> I'll go play with him most days, THAT'S IRRELEVENT.
> but sometimes I'm just so busy that I can't > drain him of all of his energy before I have > to move on to something else. HOWER EXXXPERTS RELY ON EXXXCESSIVE EXXXERCISE and ANTI PSYCHOTIC MEDICATION TO EXXXPIATE THEIR CRITTERS ANXIHOWESNESS BEHAVIOR PROBLEMS on accHOWENT of:
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> What I'm wondering is if anyone knows of > a toy or something that would keep him better > occupied during the day when nobody's home. You can use The Amazing Puppy Wizard's Surrogate Toy Separation / Bedtime Calming / Submissive Urination / Fear of Thunder / Car Sickness Technique.
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> We've tried some toys before, but he doesn't > seem to be too interested in them unless someone > else is showing him exactly what to do. "If you talk with the animals, they will talk with you and you will know each other. If you do not talk to them, you will not know them, and what you do not know you will fear.
What one fears, one destroys." Chief Dan George
> Thanks in advance, You've already met HOWER MENTAL CASES. They HAVE NO ADVICE FOR YOU other than CONtinue doin what you're doin or GET RID of the kat.
In The Problem Animal Behavior BUSINESS FAILURE MEANS DEATH. SAME SAME SAME SAME, For The Problem Child Behavior BUSINESS.
> Elisabeth > (Y) > ( ' ' ) > O((''') (''') Dr. George VonHilsheimer writes in "Is there a SCIENCE of BEHAVIOR?":
"Valette 1966 is a complete trivialization of scientific findings. It overstates the case for reinforcement theory. No careful researcher would contend that operant techniques CAN ANY THING MORE than modify SHORT TERM BEHAVIOR in a highly controlled and limited environment with a large number of skillful experimenters. Certainly the most elaborate studies have shown that the withdrawal or temprary inefficiency of the reward system is immediately followed by CESSATION of the programmed behavior.
In fortunate contrast to this depressing paper is the research reported by Whelan (1966) who makes the simple but profHOWEND caveat that "It is only through CORRECT, EFFICIENT APPLICATION (of operant principles) that children's behavor can be changed to the extent that they can subsequently contribute to the REAL WORLD in which they live." "
"The Methods, Principles And Philosophy Of Behavior Never Change, Or They'd Not Be Scientific And Would Not Obtain Consistent, Reliable, Fast, Effective Results For All Handler's And All Dogs, As Taught In Your FREE Copy Of The Puppy Wizard's FREE WWW Wits' End Dog Training Method Manual," The Amazing Puppy Wizard. <{} ; ~ )
Dr. Von continues:
"Whelan illustrates the simple nature or the learning process by referring to Ferster's engaging study of two three year old chimpanzees taught mathematics through simple procedures. Whelan carries this EVIDENCE a step futher by pointing HOWET it's applicability to disturbed children."
A Dog Is A Dog As A Child Is A Child As A Kat Is A Kat. All Critters Only Respond In Predictable Innate, Normal, Natural, Instinctive, Reflexive, Ways To Circumstances And Situations Of Their Environments Which We Create For Them.
ALL BEHAVIOR PROBLEMS ARE CAUSED BY MISHANDLING. Damn The Descartean War of "Nature Vs Nurture." We Teach By HOWER Words And Actions And GET BACK What We TAUGHT.
In The Problem Animal Behavior BUSINESS FAILURE MEANS DEATH. SAME SAME SAME SAME, For The Problem Child Behavior BUSINESS.
Dr. Von continues: "If chimpanzees CAN LEARN mathematics through step by step learning AT THEIR OWN PACE, reinforced primarily by CORRECT ANSWERS rather than with "fruit loops and rasins", we can assume that even developmentally RETARDED or CONfHOWENDED children CAN LEARN as well. Moreover, Whelan makes the EXXXTREMELY important point that while most teachers assume that learning takes place verbally, primarily it is a non verbal process..
Unfortunately Whelan limits himself to the problem that "teachers must not only modify or remove specific deviant behaviors, but must also develop socially acceptable behavior patterns in the classroom and classroom conditioned goals, NOT LEARNING.
Other researchers have emphasized the importance ofadult behaviors in conditioning classroom behavior. An EXXXCELLENT review of this researchshowd that tantrum behavior, excessive crawling and dependency, isolated play, passivity, spelling failure, and other problem behaviorscan be managed by altering habitual adult responses to children (Harris, Wolf and Baer, 1964) . Such RESEARCHholds GREATER PROMISE in that alteration of the conditioning social environment seems to provide more STABLE and LASTING CHANGES than "M and M's". Moreover, a great deal of work has been done developing EFFECTIVE techniques of behavior modificaton through the conditioning social environment of peers (Hartup, 1964). These directions would seem more PRODUCTIVE than a simple minded trainslation of the Skinner cage to the classroom.
Skinner (1963) pointed HOWET that operant techniques can "be utilized fully ONLY IF we REDEFINE the GOALS of education and the CONDITIONS in the educational environment under which those goals may be reached... (through) a DIFFERENT KIND of educational research which is much more closely concerned with the immediate dimensions of the student's behavior than with gross changes such as IMPROVED PERFORMANCES." UNFORTUNATELY, neither Skinner nor ANY OTHER learning theorist has provided us with a working model of a school or research enterprise based on systemic and thorough-going APPLICATION of LEARNING PRINCIPLES. Skinner (1948, 1953) approaches a definition of the philosophical issues involved, and provides an utopian model of a school, but generally psychologists seem STUCK at a level of MANAGEMENT of an aggressively disturbing child in the classroom, through peer approval, or the aplication of accelerating CONsequences in the classroom, or scientifically S-HOWENDING tactics like "TIME HOWET" (which we used to know more simply as "sendin the kid to the cloakroom").
Hobbs (op. cit.) claims that the classroom is a natural environement for the child. Thelen (1965) contends that "classroom practices are UNnatural, UNreasonable, and 'against NATURE.' ". This would seem the central issue for the philosophy of education. Mere trivial application of research findings to an institution essentially unchanged from Sumerian academies (Kramer, 1962) will NOT create useful teaching for human beings.
It seems relevant to ask EXXXACTLY WHAT do we know abHOWT the learning situation in which HOWER children find themselves, and why, in the light of HOWER knowledge, do we do any of the things that schools do?"
We know that there is little agreement among adults as to what it is they are SUPPOSED to be DOING, what something to do could be that MIGHT be EFFECTVE, and what it IS that other people who have authority over children ought to be doing (Mc- Eachern and Taylor, 1967). Wherefor the child's CONfusiHOWEN?
It is NO WONDER hat the marked changes in deviant behavior of children can be achieved through brief, simple educative routines with their mothers which modify the mother's social behaviors shaping the child (Whaler, 1966). Some clinics have reported ELIMINATION ofthe need for child THERAPY through changing the clinical emphasis from clinical to parental HANDLING of the child (Szrynski 1965). A large number of cases improved sufficiently after preliminary contact with parents that NO treatment of children was required, and almost ALL cases SHOWE a remarkably shortened period for therapy. Quite severe cases of anorexia nervosa have been treated in own to five months by simply REPLACING the parents temporarily with EFFUSIVELY LOVING SUBSTITUTES (Groen, 1966).
Probably the most absurd figure in Amaerican mass media is the TEACHER (Gerbner, 1966). HOWE can we EXXXPECT children to LEARN responsible P-HOWER from models of IMPOTENCE? We KNOW that LEARNING a complex ritualized social role, is facilitated by observation of an INTELLIGIBLE MODEL much more effectively than by trial and error with REINFORCEMENT. roles which are relatively arbitrary and senseless are the most difficult to learn (Luchins, 1966). Do we make ANY EFFORT as teachers to CORRECT the massive impact of media? HOWE can the ARBITRARINESS and SENSELESSNESS of IMPOTENT ADULT MODELS be redeemed by anything short of RELEVANCE and COMMITMENT?
As an engaging final comment on the PROFESSION let me mention the little study by Dittman et al (1965) tha when 15 psychotherapists and 9 professional dancers evaluated facial and bodily expressons for effect the dancers ere much MOORE accurate. Need we say MOORE abHOWET the training of therapists?
THE OPERANT FALLACY
Programs utilizing the "contingencies of reinforcement model" proposed by Skinner (1963) ar no more well established in research than the various dynamic therapists. Research in four areas : 1) direct evaluation of programmed systems for elarning; 2) reinforcement; 3) cognitive dissonance; and 4) motivation, MOST SURELY DEMOLISH eth claims of operant programers.
The 190 studies annotated by Schramm (1964) when inspected display NO SIGNIFICANT DIFFERENCES in SUCCESS among approaches and modifications. Programmed instruction is no worse than conventional instruction, and takes less time, but time reductions in conventional instruction has frequently been shown possible without detrimental effects. If you draw your controls cagily you can always show the superiority of your PET technique.
Moore and Smit (1964) compared variations on programmed materials, machines, texts, written responses, merely reading, free response, multiple choice, and iving or not giving the students results. There were NO SIGNIFICANT DIFFERENCES despite Skinner's insistence on the importance of the CONTINGENCY of REINFORCEMENT. Carpenter and Greenhill (1963) could find NO DIFFERENCE in RESULTS even after eliminating the self-pacing feature by presenting the materials by TV or Video.
Krumboltz and Kiesler (1965) reported that a two month follow up test showed NO DIFFERENCE between students given a variety of reinforcement schedules. Mayo and Longo (1966) report that naval and marine trainees saved 30% of time in learning electronics fundamentals through a programed course witrh superior scores on one measure but not on another, and with no follow-up reported. The same authors reported a reductionj from 26 HOWERS to 19 HOWERS in instruction time through the use of program with NO DIFFERENCE in test scores, except that as longer blocks of materiallearned through programmed meanswere tesed the scores DECREASED.
When the control instruction is manipulated an entirely DIFFERENT picture emerges Jacobs and Kulkarni (1966) assignedstudents in three different schools to classes with standard programmed material giving immediate knowledge of results to classes without results and to classes with the order of sections of the program inverted. In two schools the groups without knowledge of results and the groups with inverted material SCORED HIGHER. In one school there was NO DIFFERENCE. So much for THEORY. Reid and Taylor (1965) presented a linear program on paper-making to 60 paid undergrads with a 12 week follow up test. The group which merely read learned the same material in 154 minutes to 243 minutes for the group given responses- a REVERSAL of the usual BIASED RESULTS based on POOR CON-TROLLS. There were no differences on post tests. Spagnoli (1965) reports on a study exposing the control and programed group to the same material in a concentrated effort over a limited period of time. There were NO SIGNIFICANT DIFFERENCES. Sassenrath and Garverick (1965) gave 4 matched groups of 120 students four procedures: 1) looking up the wrong answers, 2) having questions discussed by the instructors, 3) checking answers from correct ones on the board, and 4) no feedback. The discussion method proved best.
Finally, in studying means of training men to perform a 72 action prcedure on Nike-Hercules equipment, Cox and Boren (1965) demonstrated that the time required to learn the procedure to critterion was NO DIFFERENT when the actions were organized into seven operant spans and taught in reverse order, in natural order, or without grouping into operant spans at all.
IT IS CLEAR that as comparisons became more sophisticated programed instruction and other operant teaching techniquesreveal tehemselves as simply another prestigiHOWES FAD--somewhat better than conventional instruction in saving time, but certainly not providing a better or better organized or more independently useful GRASP of KNOWLEDGE.
The IMBECILITY of some ofthe claims for operant technique simply take the breath away. Lovas et al (1966) report a standard contingent reward/punishment procedure developing imitative speech in two severly disturbed non verbal schizophrenic boys. After twenty- six days the boys are reported to have been learning new words with alacrity. HOWEver, when REWARDS were moved to a delayed contingency the behavoir and learning immediately deteriorated. Despite this, and despite the fact that there was no evidence of cognitive association with the words, the authors leap to the conclusion that the fact that the boys improved in the acquisition of Norwegian words WITHOUT REWARDS while still being given English words WITH REWARDS suggest hat the children may be able to acquire new behaviors on their own. The need for this study escapes one, particularly in view of the very well established fact that schizophrenics condition quite readily (Mednick, 1958) One can see the "SCIENTIFIC" PRECISION by which the authors drop contingent reinforcements thus PROVING that the parrot behavior was indeed caused by the schedule and NOT by some other mystical force. The useof Norwegian to demonstrate learning that could not even remotely be related to previous history is a grotesquery too bizarre to be credited. Who could possibly doubt that this useless and probably damaging trained seal routine depended on the psychologist's antics? What on earth led them to believe that a schizophrenic needs even more other- focused responsiveness?
Lovaas et al (1965) reportedthree programs carried out on five year old autistic twins conditioining them to "social behavior" and to eliminate pathologial behaviors such as self-stimulation and tantrums. Affectionate and other social behaviors toward adults increaseed after adults had been associated with shock reduction. The routine for this treatment brings immediate relief to mind Sawrey and Wesz (1956) routine for producing ulcers in monkeys. I suppose it is USELESS to speculate on the source of SO CALLED THERAPISTS willingness to experiment on human beings with procedures for which there is sound experimentally established WARNINGS. If the "double blind" theory of the origin of schizophrenia (Bateson, 1956) is at all valid, HOWE DEVASTATING the experience must ULTIMATELY BE. Do Lovaas et al REALLY BELIEVE the schizophrenic has no cognitive processes and DOES NOT KNOW WHO IS RESPONSIBLE FOR THE SHOCK? Greger (1965) criticized this study on the basis that trainsfer CANNOT be generalized. That issue can be answered by experience, and, of curse, the "social" behavior of these children deteriorates as soon as the psychologists LOOSE INTEREST. The IMPORTANT ISSUE for a SCIENCE OF BEHAVIOR is why not attempt those things which are KNOWN to WORK at least in some cases if only for control puporses. Kanner (1954) reports that 13 classically autistic children improved enough to go to school without "anything that is regarded as good psychotherapy or as psychotherapy at all..." Autistic children have been known to become permenantely social by deinstitutionalization, BY REMOVAL from the parents, BY RADICAL CHANGES in other environments, and by MASSIVE DOSAGE of TOUCHING, HOLDING, FONDLING LOVE DESPITE THE REJECTION OF THE CHILD. My case, Larry, (vonHilsheimer, 1965b), demonstrates a recovery by using the mother as an autistic boy's teacher in an open millieu. It is curiHOWES that the operant technicians provide as few, and as UNIMAGINITAVE controls for thier "research" as the Freudians.
REWARD / PUNISHMENT
Despite Skinner's clear denunciation of "negative reinforcement" (1958) NEARLY EVER LEARNING THEORY model involves the USE OF PUNISHMENT. Of curse, Skinner has never to my knowledge, demonstrated HOWE we escape the phenomenon that an expected reward not received is experienced as a punishment and can produce extensive and persistent aggression (Azrin et al, 1966).
MIMICRY, PLAY, EXPLORATION AND THE NEED FOR DATA
Complex activities are LEARNED MORE QUICKLY through OBSERVATION (copying, if you will) than by trial and error with reinforcemet (Luchins,). Observers of subjects making a first trial of a multiple choice bolt head maze made fewer errors than the practiced subjects in the second run, while subjects who have been shocked for error on a first trial made more errors than either (Rosenbaum & Hewitt, 1966). Students will modify their beliefs more when rewarded for the way in which they carried out arguing for a disagreeable position (role reward), than when rewarded for the content of the argument (Wallace, 1966).
Hi Jerry,
I received email from Mark Shaw on 10/6 which I just read today. Sorry I didn't have time to get to it sooner. We have had a lot going on in our area concerning animals. We formed a new Task Force to address spay/neuter, pet overpopulation and animal abuse. I needed to do a lot of research before the first meeting and time was just not available for anything else.
Anyway the letter went on to say that we are in collusion, I tried to defraud him, and have sent none of the materials that he has asked for although he has yet to furnish the P.O. Box number that he wanted them sent to in the first place.
He goes on to state that I am no longer eligible for the "fictions reward." All of this is in answer to postings that prove I was "sharing" his email with you which in his opinion was a breach of good manners. His email only had terms and conditions of the reward which I would consider "public information."
Be that as it may, I would like to state that you had my permission to post any email I have sent you regarding DDR including this email.
I'm very sorry that you have to put up with this type of situation from someone that obviously never intended to make good on his reward offer in the first place.
I had a call from a friend of mine with a very aggressive cat. I have loaned her my DDR for a few weeks to see if it will calm JR down. I will let you know the results. She goes to the same holistic vet that I go to and he is also interested.
In case Mark does post to the list again I would like to say that I do very much believe that DDR will help JR as I know it has helped my dogs and cats. I have entirely too much to do, to worry about his opinions or reward.
The only reason I was willing to apply for the reward was on your behalf as I do think your product is a valuable tool in helping with aggression and other behavior problems.
I am in Feral Cat Network (we spay and neuter approximately 100 feral cats a month), I am also a member of a local AKC dog obedience club, member of a local AKC agility club, president of Pet Rescue, board member of the Alliance for Care and Welfare of Animals (on the board are: county commissioner, vet. rep., rep. from AKC dog club, CFA cat club, assistant County manager, head of animal control, director of two different shelters, etc.).
I listed these not to be on an ego trip but to let Mark know that I am involved with animals and have very little time to play games with him also I would not recommend your product if I did not believe in it.
Please feel free to post this email as it has no copyright on it as did Mark Shaw's last email to me.
Take care Jerry and don't let the Mark's of the world get you down.
Elaine
Thank you, Elaine. I have been trying to educate the mark's of this world, with some occasional successes. I guess that's variable reinforcement?
Yours, Jerry.
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Elaine McClung, President of Pet Rescue writes: Sep 9, 2000
"I ordered from Jerry a long time ago.. He was helpful and the order was filled promptly. Yes, Doggie Do Right does indeed exist.
I "had" a very aggressive female Pit.. She was showing aggression not only towards Dok, Rhodesian Ridgeback, but our cats and even us.
She now plays with Dok, even to the point of allowing him to take a toy or bone from her. She no longer shows any aggression towards us. She is showing some aggression towards the cats but that is down to a warning growl.
It is not just my opinion that all this aggression existed before Doggie Do Right as we were advised by three vets to euthanize her.
I do very much believe that DDR will help JR as I know it has helped my dogs and cats. I do think your product is a valuable tool in helping with aggression and other behavior problems.
I am in Feral CatNetwork (we spay and neuter approximately 100 feral cats a month), I am also a member of a local AKC dog obedience club, member of a local AKC agility club, president of Pet Rescue, board member of the Alliance for Care and Welfare of Animals (on the board are: county commissioner, vet. rep., rep. from AKC dog club, CFA cat club, assistant County manager, head of animal control, director of two different shelters, etc.).
Thanks, Elaine,
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Hi Jerry,
I wrote to you a week or so ago about the unit. I have since borrowed one from Elaine Mc Clung. She speaks very highly of it.
So, I brought it home and plugged it in. Of course, I wanted it to come on, all the barking stop, and have every one immediately fall to the floor in little comas for a few hours. Well, after I got all 27 of them to be quiet, still no comas. But, it had only been 36 seconds at that point. So, I gave it a little longer. Still no comas. Was this really going to work? I mean, I do have an unusual situation.
So, by bedtime, a few hours later. I started to notice just how many were asleep already - with their feet in the air! I started to have hope. During the night, all was calm. In the morning when I got up, only a few of them WALKED quietly to the door to go out. Not the usual evacuation.
I had the unit from Sunday afternoon until Tuesday Morning. I was certainly pleased with the night effect. I wasn't so sure about the amount of the day time effect. Until I took it back. Within half an hour, the monsters had resurfaced. I wondered if I could break into Elaine's house and if she would notice :)
I know another person who does dog rescue. She rescues Beagles. She has 23 in an 1100 square foot house. God bless her. She is interested to see if it will work for her. I also spoke to someone else who does cat rescue, and she is interested. The cat rescue people have monthly meetings. Maybe Elaine could give a word or two about it.
So, if there are any words of advice you can send my way about the best way to use it in my case, I would appreciate it. I of course wanted to keep it on the highest setting, but don't know if that is advised, even with my situation of so many new ones coming and (too few) going.
Also, how I and others can go about getting one, etc. I think the vets should have the info in their offices. It must help dogs with separation anxiety. My vet practices homeopathic as well as traditional medicine, so I would think it would be right up her alley.
Thank you. Desiree M Webber A New Leash On Life
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"misty" <Momisty@webtv.net wrote in message news: 16990-3CAB1F8C-1@storefull-2293.public.lawson.webtv.net...
I don't now whether Peach is dead or alive. I do know she's not here with us. I really can't blame anyone here for her loss.
I'm the one who ignored your advice. I did it because of how you write/wrote. I was unwilling to accept the idea that my using a shock collar could have any bearing on Peach not wanting to stay home.
Up until I started using it my main concern had been keeping my dogs in their own yard.
Once I started using the e-fence... well, then my concern became how to keep them from running off for days on end.
I lost valuable training time becoming embroiled in the anti-shock debate and the "Jerry sux" tirades.
I lost one dog but I have the bestest dog in the world now <g> A Wits End Trained dog, one who is completely housetrained, doesn't chew up stuff, stays in the yard, and doesn't bark all the time.
IOW a great companion and friend.
Thanks Jerry!
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misty" <Momisty@webtv.net> wrote in message news:6946-3B6337A1-329@storefull-233.iap.bryant.webtv.net...
We just installed a PetSafe brand fence this Spring. Two dogs, two collars We now have one dog and no collars.
Peach and Zelda would run thru the fence, not want to come back in the yard and would run for days. The last time, Peach didn't come back home.
I used the Wit's End Training Manual to learn how to train my dog. She is now border trained. A few minutes each day reinforces her desire to stay in the yard. She no longer runs out into the road, I can stop her from chasing cats and she no longer cringes when we walk around the yard.
I can not say loud or long enough how much I hate the e-fence and its collars. If you can't get a regular fence then you need to train your dog.
I will never rely on an electronic collar to keep my dog in our yard again.
The price was too high:-(
~misty
Margaret Hoffman Doggy Do Right and Jerry Howe
I just recently looked at this newsgroup and I found it incredible.
I do have a Doggy Do Right and have had it for about one year. It truly does work - at least on my Dobe, Chelsea.
Chelsea was the unhappy recipient of several failed attempts at obedience training, both in a "class" environment and with a personal trainer.
She is very high spirited and strong and, unfortunately, spoiled, since we are an older couple who doted on our dog.
We were lucky enough to find Jerry Howe and to not only buy a Doggy Do Right, but to also have him personally work with Chelsea.
His methods are wonderful and effective.
Chelsea is not a dog that you will bully, and I wouldn't dream of hurting her. After Jerry spent time with her, she no longer jumped on furniture, ate food off the counter, pulled me incessantly on the leash.
She is calmer and we are all happier.
Well, it is a very long story and I won't bore you with all the details, but suffice it to say that Jerry Howe saved the day for our dog and for us. Marge Hoffman
P.S. You can send me the reward money, but I won't sell you my DDR!
> Jerry has taken the time to help me out off the NG. I > have a very loud cockatoo who has been having problems [quoted text clipped - 56 lines] > Joey is walking, Buddy will realize that he's not a > strange animal.. some kind of furless dog or c*t <bg>. ==============================
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